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A powerful exercise to help you make up your mind

What to do when you don’t know what to do.
The brain – she’s a fickle mistress.

When our angst-wracked friend comes to us with an unsolvable problem that’s had them pacing the dining room at 4am…
9 times out of 10 we say – “well that’s easy – you do X and Y”.
Ta-da.
It’s rarely as cut-and-dried in our own lives.
What we can do for our friend, is see a complete, orderly picture – unfettered by our own emotional reaction (although obviously a degree of bias).
Like shouting at the film: “FOR GOD’S SAKE, KISS HIM can’t you see he loves you”.
For ourselves, decisions are bound up in past events, worries, fortune-telling, and the panic that it is ultimately we that have to take action.
Also – we don’t want to make the ‘wrong’ decision and ultimately end up making NO decision at all.
Overwhelm is the quickest route to inaction and leaves you no further ahead.
It’s another example of the brain keeping us safe – just as it does when it persuades us to stay out of that nasty rain and miss Zumba because you’ll catch your death.
The ‘no-brainer’ is easy – Option A is way better than Option B… job done.
The art comes when things look pretty even
So where the Pro-Con list is good… but the numbered Pro-Con list is the boss.
So take each of your factors and assign it a number from:
minus 10 for negatives (for total nightmare, awful, hate it)
to plus 10 for positives (awesome, dreamy, excellent).
So let’s say you have been offered a job and thinking about a house move.
List every potential pertinent factor:
  • Your salary will be higher.
  • Husband’s salary unaffected.
  • Your commute will be shorter.
  • Husband works from home and unaffected.
  • Eldest child isn’t keen
  • Middle child indifferent
  • Youngest child gets to go to a school that specialises in the sport he loves.
  • Cat can’t come.
  • Nearer babysitting family
  • Garden is smaller
  • Kitchen is bigger
  • Shops are closer.
  • Restaurants are better
  • Hottub included
  • Mortgage cheaper
Giving each one an actual score means that you can actually, logically, make an informed judgement about what is most important to you.
Each thing’s RELATIVE value compared to the other variables.
To actually compare oranges with lemons.
Even though this sounds super-simplistic it is a powerful mental model that means you can feel confident of your decision-making before you crack on confidently.

P.S. THERE IS RARELY SUCH A THING AS A WRONG OR RIGHT DECISION – WE TEND TO MAKE WHICHEVER ONE WE TAKE WORK …AND MAKE THE BEST OF IT.

CHANGE FEELS EASIER WHEN YOU THINK OF IT AS PLOT-TWISTS OR BENDS IN THE RIVER OF LIFE.

DEEP MAN

Love from Tanya & Claire xx

 

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