Diving deep into the heart of our Values, well… it’s been a lot!
But it’s worth the effort 100 times over.
Because of Happiness.
That is what all of this entire deep dive into your Values has been about.
We humans are collectors of moments.
Those flashes of joy that light up our lives.
The highlights, the dreamy holidays, the thrill of buying new things, new relationships, nights out and the occasional windfall.
And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with savouring these joys.
They’re the spices in the mulled wine of life, injecting us with a shot of euphoria that, albeit fleeting, feels amazing.
But, as the sun sets on our holiday adventures and the sheen on our new treasures dull, we realise it’s all transient.
The joy they bring is temporary.
A brief firework display in the grand scheme of things.
And money – well, it finds its way out of our pockets as easily as it came in.
You could say:
“Why not?
Let’s chase the sparkle.
Let’s string together as many dazzling moments as we can!”
And there’s a certain merit and charm in living life in pursuit of the next dopamine high.
But, when we shift our gaze inward.
When we look for meaning and purpose in our lives, we can find a more enduring kind of happiness.
It’s about standing tall, living a life that’s authentically ours, surrounded by people who not only get us but elevate us.
The cosy contentedness of waking up unworried – not dreading a thing.
Investing our energy with intention, without wasting a drop on things that don’t matter.
Feeling calm, proud and at peace with our choices.
In this inside-out, deep foundation approach to life, the highlights don’t just happen –
they’re cultivated from the richness of our experiences and the depth of our connections.
In the deep confidence in who we are and what we stand for.
We find ourselves in a state of serene self-acceptance, unburdened by the need for justification or apology.
It’s here, in this mental quiet, that we discover the world holds more meaning than we ever imagined.
That our time here – is short and precious.
And that, is the real secret to Happiness.
When we can let go of the relentless chase, and living deeply, meaningfully,
and true to our core.
True Happiness.
That’s the value of embracing our Values.